Question 1
- Area of life where I would like to be but I am not there at present
I wanted to be a poet but my family and friends are creating obstacles as they are not convinced of this being a stable carrier and because of that I am unable to pursue what I believe to be my option.
Supporting belief- I can pursue whatever I want to if I can convince them and I do have the potential to do that.
- Why have not I changed this part of my life already?
This is because my thoughts and wishes are not enough to motivate me to fulfil or change my field and pursue my dream.
Supporting belief- The present carrier I am pursuing is giving me financial satisfaction and fulfilling my requirements.
- Please people to make them love and value me
I always seek approval from people and that makes me doubt my potential and capabilities and it also demeans my confidence.
Supporting belief- I am enough for myself, my opinion is primarily important and beneficial for myself.
- Trust issues with people
I cannot trust people because of the betrayal I faced before
Supporting belief- Everyone deserved to trust and be trusted unless projected otherwise.
- Fear in pursuing dreams because of fear of failure
I cannot pursue my dreams because I have a fear that I cannot accomplish them
Supporting belief- The dreams I am holding are mine and their failure will be my responsibility and I should embrace whatever I get following them. I should work on my dreams and move further with every possible action for that (Harrison, 2020).
Question 2
Life is uncertain and everyone is aware of this, yet they plan for their future and aspire to become something and see themselves at a position that is satisfactory for them considering their struggle and efforts put in to achieve (Accion, 2020).
A Positive mental attitude is the most important thing to become successful, whether in your personal life or business. The mental capacity to think out of the box and the mindset you follow to set the goal of your life sets the tone for the rest of the process to become successful (Cherry, 2020).
I have taken several wrong decisions in my carrier that had put me down at that time and I have wasted my few years of life because of that. I believe that I can get over such hurdles every time as I have an enthusiastic approach towards life after that incident, with that, I have a creative mindset that avails the possibility of creating new opportunities and ways to deal with the issues that come forth in daily life. I also have a persuasive communication capability that is essential to negotiate and deal with people we met during our lifespan and it is an essential ingredient of successful leadership.
It is totally a reflection of the situation on how we respond to that and that reflects our personality traits that differ from being brave and confident to acting cowardly in such situations (Kurtus, 2020). I have a positive trait in such situations. The assessment of an individual mindset can be assessed through the approach towards life, personality traits, and how they behave with others. A mindset can have both positive and negative attributes in it, but the point of consideration is knowing which part is required to be active and when. I have a Growth Mindset; I believe that traits, intelligence, personality, and talents can be modified according to the need with hard work and effort. For example, an individual who is bad at practicing art can become a better artist by hard work and improving their artistic abilities, and if they do not let the past failures affect their present struggle for a successful future (Stepping Stone Therapy, 2020).
Considering this as a part of life a person initiate their first step towards a positive attitude and learning from such only embraces the mindset and cultivation of key characteristics of a successful life (Accion, 2020). I see my life as a successful venture in the next 10 years as I have learned a lot from my past and that has helped me develop a sustainable positive attitude, good leading capabilities, and a determined approach towards life.
Bibliography
Accion. (2020). Entrepreneurial Mindset: 5 Characteristics to Cultivate. Retrieved from Accion: https://us.accion.org/resource/entrepreneurial-mindset-5-characteristics-to-cultivate/
Cherry, K. (2020). Why Mindset Matters for Your Success. Retrieved from Very Well Mind: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-mindset-2795025
Harrison, M. (2020). 5 STEPS TO UNCOVERING AND TRANSFORMING LIMITING BELIEFS. Retrieved from Megankharrison: https://megankharrison.com/limitingbeliefs/
Kurtus, R. (2020). Personal Character Traits Important for Achievement. Retrieved from School for Champions: https://www.school-for-champions.com/character/personal_traits.htm#.X828mdgzbIU
Stepping Stone Therapy. (2020). What Kind of Mindset Do You Have? Retrieved from Stepping Stone Therapy: https://steppingstonetherapy.org/mindset/
